I am really confused
I am really mixed up when it comes to this whole baby thing. Do I want to try again? Don’t I? What if I can’t get pregnant? What if I can? I don’t know which is scarier!
The other day my wife came to me and said we can try again. She wants some ground rules, like how many times, etc. And I am a little freaked out! I don’t know what to think of the whole thing. She has said we can try again before, but this time I think she means it. We had a long conversation about it all, and I am more confused than ever! I know she is not 100% sure about all this, and that scares me. I should probably do a pros and cons list to try and figure it all out. If you knew me in real life, you wouldn’t think I was this scatterbrained!
My mom summed it all up nicely a few weeks ago, she said that it won’t just happen for us accidentally, so we over think it all. I’m not sure who over thinks it more, me or my wife…
What was the deciding factor for all of you? Did you both just want the same thing? I know Strawberry and Nutella had the same sort of situation. Has anyone else gone through this? How long did it take to figure it all out?